sexuality

Seven modern myths about gay men

Guys, it’s your turn. Good thing you’ve got a lesbian pal who’s not afraid to get to the (ahem) bottom of all this mystery. You ready?

Ask the Sexpert: girlfriend’s voyeuristic cat

My girlfriend is obsessed with her cat to the extent that she refused to let me lock her furry friend out of the bedroom while we are going to get down and dirty. This really creeps me out; it’s like the cat is watching us, waiting till we’re done to come and cuddle. I know she’s really connected with her pet, so I’m not sure how to bring it up. Ideas?

The breakup, part II

It’s been weeks since the relationship went south and you’re still a mess, bless your heart.

The health hazards of heartbreak

Brace for impact: heartbreak likes to get physical.

Ask the Sexpert: ‘I’ve lost interest in sex’

Shanna answers a letter from someone who has lost their sex drive, and gives advice on getting it back

Subtle Seduction: Little things lesbians find sexy, in their own words

Last time we asked gay men what they love in a guy — now it’s the lesbians’ turn

‘Gay sex 101’ for straight guys and lesbians

I armed myself with his questions and ventured out to a coffee shop in Midtown, where my favorite gay duo (Steve and Owen) sipped, laughed and answered with gusto.

One size-queen does not fit all

So the next time you find yourself in a room full of nakedness, remember that we all come in many different shapes and sizes. One size does not fit all. But it sure is fun trying.

Preferences or prejudice?

The fact that we have preferences does not necessarily mean we’re closed-minded or inappropriately judge.

Sexual harassment — now available in men’s

The brief and unwelcome advance of someone who made him feel sexually and physically vulnerable ruined his simple anticipation of having a good time out.