sex advice

Ask the Sexpert: Come on!

If someone wants to have hot cum spurted out all over their body, then power to them and they should celebrate that delicious concoction.

Dining In

The kitchen sounds fantastic, and is an easy way to add pizazz to a sex life that might be feeling a bit routine.

‘I’ve lost interest in sex’

First let me say that this isn’t just you — hundreds of thousands of people, of all genders and orientations, are in this boat. Our sex drives go up and down throughout our lives.

Ask the Sexpert: ‘I’ve lost interest in sex’

Shanna answers a letter from someone who has lost their sex drive, and gives advice on getting it back

Sexpert: More of a good thing

I want to try some new and different things with my partner of 8 years, but I’m not sure how to bring it up without it seeming unhappy with our current sex life (I’m not).

Ask the Sexpert: E–jill–ulation explained

I’ve received not one, not a few, but over a dozen questions on the concept of “female ejaculation,” or ejaculation from bodies that don’t have penises.

Take off your Kinsey blinders

In the 1950s it may have been plausible that people could rate themselves on a 1-6 of ‘purely heterosexual’ to ‘purely homosexual,’ but this is 2013.

Ask the Sexpert: Say it before you play it

Dear Shanna,

It’s always awkward for me to bring up using a condom during oral sex with guys that I am hooking up with, but it’s very important to me to use protection, even during blow jobs. Any suggestions?

Ask the Sexpert: How to keep sex drive going strong during pregnancy

Dear Shanna,  My partner and I have decided to try in vitro fertilization to have…

A little curve, a big sway: What lesbians vs. straight men love about a woman’s body

When I first sat down to write this article, I asked myself ‘how hard could this be?’ I thought that discussing body-type preferences between lesbians and straight males would be an easy subject to tackle – that I could guess what they’d
say … I couldn’t have been more wrong.