gay relationships

HeinzeSight: Karma’s a bitch!

Dear Brent,

A while ago I made a profile on a hookup site, and uploaded a few pictures of me that weren’t the most flattering, but decent and all I had handy. I came across a very hot guy and sent him a message, but he replied that I wasn’t “in his league” and shouldn’t have more closely read where his profile says he has “high standards.” Before I could even reply, he blocked me!

Effeminate Male, seeks to be butch

Dear Brent, A guy I’ve been on a few dates with recently told me he…

Love in the digital era

Today’s school-aged kids may never know what it’s like to hand-write a school paper; many are…

Take your social life back from technology

Many of us get frustrated with our culture’s reliance on the Internet and electronic formats…

Pre-Cheating is a player’s game

  Dear Brent, I started posting profiles on gay networking and hookup sites about a…

Meth and mistletoe holiday hopes for a life regained

This is the time of year in which many people contemplate their New Year’s resolutions.…

10 ways to increase your chances of connecting

This time of year signifies the end of 2011 and all of our hopes for…

10 ways to destroy an intimate encounter

We have all been disappointed when we finally get to the point of getting it…

Gay discrimination: is preferring one race to another racist or just taste?

Dear Brent, I am an African American gay man. I have a very good job,…

Married but searching for answers

Dear Brent, I’m in a long-term heterosexual relationship, but I know I am gay. I…