Ask the Sexpert

Dining In

The kitchen sounds fantastic, and is an easy way to add pizazz to a sex life that might be feeling a bit routine.

Flirting 101

Here’s the deal: I want to be good at flirting. I mean, I get the basics — a little eye contact, a little smile, don’t be a jerk — but after that, I am totally lost.

Taking it all off

A reader asks Shanna about the type of underwear that would best accentuate their body

Gimme a “G”

A reader poses a question to our Sexpert about the elusive g-spot

Sexpert: Lube is Love

You know, I love this question because I love lube, I think you should love lube, and honestly, one of my few “rules” to having good sex is lube is love.

Sexpert: Assuaging anxiety about anal

Dear Shanna, How can I convince my wife that she’ll like anal sex and should…

Ask The Sexpert: Reconnecting after a long time at long distance

I’m a little worried about how to be intimate with him, since we haven’t been together in a long time, and didn’t develop our relationship at a normal pace. Any thoughts?

Ask The Sexpert: ‘My breakup killed my sex drive’

After a traumatic end of a serious and long-term relationship, I lost pretty much all interest in sex, including masturbation.

Sexpert: Where’s the line for ‘cheating’ in a relationship?

Dear Shanna, Is it “cheating” if it’s not in-person? I’m talking about cybersex, webcamming, sexting…

‘I’ve lost interest in sex’

First let me say that this isn’t just you — hundreds of thousands of people, of all genders and orientations, are in this boat. Our sex drives go up and down throughout our lives.